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Culture War Roundup for the week of August 11, 2025

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From AntiDem's Ask.FM account:

Once we develop artificial wombs, will there be any reason to keep women around? Should we exterminate them all?

I think it was Matt Forney who pointed out that all the talk about women having to compete with porn and 2D waifus was ridiculous. If, as a real, live, human woman with a beating heart and a warm bosom, these things are even the tiniest bit of real "competition", there's something desperately wrong and you fucked up royal. Women are supposed to be our help-meets, our comfort, our joy, our safe harbor from the bitterness of this harsh world. Modernity destroyed that on the theory that turning them into cold, mechanical cogs in the corporate/industrial machine would somehow make things better. Did it? Maybe it did add an extra 2% to GDP. Any sane society would declare that some things are not for sale, and give it all up to have our women back. But I fear they're lost. Degrees and exceptions, yes, but bottom line, I think they're gone, and I don't see how we get them back any time soon.

And the worst part is, I can't even bring myself to care enough about them to even be angry anymore.

As well as:

You don't really mean all that stuff about 3DPD, do you?

Don't I? Has anybody ever really liked 3DPD? The ancients believed that 3DPD were for procreation, but cuteboys were for love and pleasure. In fact, the ancients liked their cuteboys so much that the God of the Bible literally had to resort to threatening to roast them in a lake of fire for all eternity in order to get them to stop screwing cuteboys and to pay attention to their 3DPD wives instead. After that, some combination of strong patriarchy, social pressure, mythologizing (of the troubadour/romantic variety), and the abovementioned threat kept things going relatively smoothly for a good long while, but when deconstructors started breaking all that down for ideological reasons, an unintended consequence was that men started drifting away from 3DPD again, this time to internet porn and/or 2D waifus. It of course hasn't helped matters that feminism seems to have spent decades on a crusade to make 3D women as unpalatable as humanly possible. A couple of centuries ago, the strong constraints placed upon them by rigid gender roles had created a sort of 3D womanhood that was not without its charms. Now that they have been loosed, well... look at rates of divorce, and at birthrates. Men have "voted with their feet", so to speak. They have in some cases fled 3DPD altogether, and in others have fled any commitment to them.

You'd think this would send a message to 3DPD that maybe they should try to regain whatever charms they once had in hopes of enticing men back for more than some casual sex. But no - they seem to be doubling down on feminism, and headed down the Cat Lady Highway as fast as they can drive. Well, good luck to them, but I won't be along for the ride.

And from the comments of "Asia Is Not Our Salvation; It Is Our Suicide" by the same:

This article is full of the typical female inability to take any fucking responsibility whatsoever for anything they ever do wrong. Western women are such mannish, rude, petulant trash that their men have walked away and started searching for other options? It's the fault of men, or those Asian bitches they seem to like these days, or 2D cartoons, or Pornhub, or everything except the idea that you - YOU - fucked up. You want men to walk away from their Asian girlfriends or put down the anime body pillows? Then you - YOU - put in the effort to become the better option. You want a place to start? Here's an idea: stop bitching men out for noticing incentives and disincentives, and for taking a better deal over a worse one. That's not going to get your men to come back to you. Here's the thing - you can become the change you want to see, which involves effort, or you can just complain, which requires none.

Man, do you just bookmark every woman-hating rant on the Internet? I deeply regret learning today what "3DPD" means.

Man, do you just bookmark every woman-hating rant on the Internet?

Not at all; I simply remember them, then look them up at need. For example, I recalled that the first two were from AntiDem's Ask.FM page, so I trawled the cache archives (which list several years worth of question and answers) with Ctrl+F until I found them. The last one I saw reblogged on @Capital_Room's tumblr once, so I searched and, sure enough...

A good rant lives rent-free in my head.

I deeply regret learning today what "3DPD" means.

I aim to please.

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