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Requests for advice and / or encouragement. On basically any topic and for any scale of problem.
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Practical question.
How to tackle an insecure superior who is worried about his job and thinks he can retain it by forcing out the people under him?
I have been in this situation for a while, recently things sort of came to a head and made me realize that the situation is intolerable and requires some drastic changes for the sake of my own mental health. Current job market is not great and I don't relish fighting algorithms and corporate hiring websites for access.
Bonus points for any solution that allows me to escape the consequences of using physical violence in a white-collar setting, but I doubt it.
Well certainly avoid physical confrontation or violence of any kind, though perhaps that's the idea--you'd like to be violent but the repercussions would be unavoidable.
Hard to answer without much more specific descriptions, unless you're casting about for permission to use manipulation and subterfuge to undermine this person. I'd personally avoid that route as well, though such strategies tend to get results. I'd argue the cost is one's soul but I tend toward dramatic statements, especially when sitting in a hospital waiting room for hours, as I'm doing now. (I'm not sick.)
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