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Why does advice work so poorly?

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Can I ask how old you are?

I hope you don't take this the wrong way, but this reads like something I might have written between 20-25 or so.

I think a big part of transitioning from the academic universe to something approximating the 'real world' is that no one is going to walk you through life.

It's on you to pull out the bits of advice that resonate with you and decide to try those out, then decide which of those you want to keep trying, which of those you want to stop trying, and what you want to try out that no one advised you to do.

You get to decide the itinerary, you get to decide the score card too.

I sorta see what you mean. Personally, I have learned give and take little advice. People generally do not want unsolicited advice. Good advice is typically very specific and by an expert ; for example , an academic advisor.