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The Bailey Podcast E030: Indubitably, Porn

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In this episode, we discuss porn.

Participants: Yassine, Interversity, Neophos, Xantos.

Links:

E016: The Banality of Catgirls (The Bailey)

Is Internet Pornography Causing Sexual Dysfunctions? A Review with Clinical Reports (Behavioral Sciences)

How Pornography Can Ruin Your Sex Life (Mark Manson)

Does too much pornography numb us to sexual pleasure? (Aeon Magazine)

The great porn experiment (TEDx)

Hikikomori (Wikipedia)

The Effects Of Too Much Porn: "He's Just Not That Into Anyone" (The Last Psychiatrist)

Hard Core (The Atlantic)

Recorded 2022-12-18 | Uploaded 2023-01-12

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My wife and I have never watched porn while having sex. However, we have watched porn when we both want to have sex to some extent, but just aren't feeling especially frisky. Once we are both feeling horny we will either ignore the porn or turn it off as we get down to business.

Though I agree with @FiveHourMarathon. It's something you have to use sparingly. I can't speak for my wife but my feelings would certainly be hurt if I felt like she could rarely/never get in the mood based on my own merits, but had to see some other dude naked to get going. We actually haven't watched porn together in quite sometime (probably a few years), but even before that it was real infrequent. And I think that was for the best.

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