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Culture War Roundup for the week of September 8, 2025

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I think I was incredibly gracious, giving you a very low bar to clear to prove political violence isn't rare at 10% of 1% of 1% of leftists.

Even just a fraction of a fraction is considered a small amount, you got a 90% discount. If you still can't manage it, maybe consider you are just wrong.

Suddenly you care about what other people think? What was it you said earlier?"Oh wow, this saddens me so much that a stranger on the internet disagrees." (Words spoken to a stranger on the internet about why he should not disagree with you)

Well that makes two of us. I didn't convince you. Boo hoo. Why do you demand I stand and put my best foot forward when you dismiss the fact that your own arguments are not convincing? You clearly just want to shut down the conversation, which is why you're here shitting up every thread instead of making a new one about the kids you supposedly care about.

You really come off like you care less about dead kids than you do about the opportunity they provide as a distraction. If that weren't the case, you'd bring them up in contexts besides the death of Charlie Kirk.

By contrast, the reason people are talking about Charlie Kirk is because they actually do care about his death. This reflects poorly on you, and only adds fuel to the fire.

Not a single word you have written this week is to your benefit.

I am not going to read anything else you say because I think you are a terrible person, and everything you say makes you look more like that. I am absolutely certain you think Charlie's death is a good thing, and your only concern is that anyone disagrees. From the spamming of conservative slogans I have never said in my life to the dismissal of good faith argumentation, you make yourself impossible to be kind to, and I am normally very patient. If you want to make things worse for yourself, reply anyway, but I won't see it.

You are getting very agitated for someone who "didn't read lol." This post is terrible: antagonistic, full of personal attacks and mind-reading, and the final flounce. Additionally, we're informed you're sending abusive DMs. The only reason I'm not banning you for the latter is that I have only the recipient's word for it. However, if this behavior continues, you will be banned.

I know the site needs some DEI initiatives to protect the endangered left, but it really does feel like you have overlooked stuff like words being put in people's mouths and antagonism just because it's aimed rightwards. This is the result. I won't act like I conducted myself admirably but the temperature had escalated enormously before I even got here. Rest assured I have no intention of saying anything else to him

We are often accused of giving "DEI" passes to leftists. I'm not going to bother arguing that point for the umpteenth time. I'm just going to say that no one is ever getting a pass for sending insulting DMs to people or justifying it with "he started it."

Why do you demand I stand and put my best foot forward when you dismiss the fact that your own arguments are not convincing?

Do you believe your general attitude of insults presents as a person operating in good faith with an open mind to change? All you've done this entire time is to continue the "feels > reals" discourse rather than actually cite any numbers, statistics, or information.

You really come off like you care less about dead kids than you do about the opportunity they provide as a distraction. If that weren't the case, you'd bring them up in contexts besides the death of Charlie Kirk.

By contrast, the reason people are talking about Charlie Kirk is because they actually do care about his death. This reflects poorly on you, and only adds fuel to the fire.

Hmm, does this mean you don't care about kids dying if you haven't made a thread on it? I hope you hold yourself to the standard of "no thread = no care" you hold me to.

  • I am absolutely certain you think Charlie's death is a good thing, and your only concern is that anyone disagrees.

You're absolutely certain how? Because you made it up in your head and therefore it's real?

From the spamming of conservative slogans I have never said in my life

Why would it matter if you said it or not? The truth remains facts don't care about your feelings and facts don't care to be politically correct.

you make yourself impossible to be kind to, and I am normally very patient.

I've met plenty of patient people before and none of them have became angry because of a commonly used slogan. You're an interesting outlier.