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Got so close to getting T-boned this morning. 4 way stop, I'd stopped, spotted a car to my right still headed to the intersection. I'm like cool I win. Start driving through the intersection. Car to my right blows through their stop sign. Is turning onto the road like I'm not already halfway through the intersection. Lay on my horn swerve to the left, narrowly dodge the car.
It happened 100 feet from my house, with my baby daughter in the back seat. Fucking asshole drivers, I might have ended up in jail today had he hit me. I am also starting to think that the minivan I was driving is cursed. It would have been the 4th accident in that vehicle in just 3 years of ownership. The other vehicle we've owned for 8 years has zero accidents.
What color is the minivan? Darker or greeny colors seem to have more accidents for obvious reasons. (Of course there are also many shitty careless drivers in the world who would blow a stop sign even if the car they were about to ram into were day-glo orange.)
Solid black, we have joked about wrapping it in caution tape to improve visibility.
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