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PaperclipPerfector  3mo ago (text post)   3070 thread views

Small-Scale Question Sunday for September 21, 2025

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There's certain content -- certain types of gore, certain furry content, etc -- that gives me "the ick".

Sometimes I remember that many people get the same "ick" feeling from anime art in general, particularly the type of anime art that gets criticized as "overly-sexualized".

What are some times when you were reminded of the unbridgeable gap between different modes of perception?

ASMR. My wife watches cooking shorts on Facebook and they feature both TikTok editing (which is simply annoying) and ASMR sound, with all the slicing, scraping, sizzling, slurping sounding like it's happening right next to your ear.

She doesn't notice the difference, but I can't stand them. And some people are paying for recordings where they can hear a woman's tongue unstick from her hard palate.

My wife watches cooking shorts on Facebook... slurping sounding like it's happening right next to your ear.

I'd be insanely... cooked... if I were being hazed by a secret society or tortured in interrogation and prolonged exposure to such shorts was part of the torment.

She doesn't notice the difference, but I can't stand them.

This reminds me of a comment in the ACT article on misophonia, where the commenter remarked that the experience is made much worse when others aren't bothered by the same sounds as you are.

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