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Small-Scale Question Sunday for September 21, 2025

Do you have a dumb question that you're kind of embarrassed to ask in the main thread? Is there something you're just not sure about?

This is your opportunity to ask questions. No question too simple or too silly.

Culture war topics are accepted, and proposals for a better intro post are appreciated.

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As a culture warrior, this seems like an eminently disadvantageous move. Attempting to lose gracefully when both sides' blood is up and they're out for more of it just means that your side gets plowed under more easily. Specifically, the Left can leverage this as "stop arguing about this, see how the widow takes it, there's the moral authority you must now follow, cease your fighting", and then turn around and promote more violence against the Right, while the Right sends conflicting in-group signals about whether they should fight back or lie down and let themselves get trampled harder.

I'm sorry, but for me the Culture War doesn't become less damaging when the Right just forgives the left for literally murderign their spokespeople. I'm sure the Widow is quite distraught at present, and not obliged to serve my political cause, and perhaps it is the Christian thing to do, but strategically it's downright stupid and, if it does anything at all, will only invite more attacks.

I'm sorry, but for me the Culture War doesn't become less damaging when the Right just forgives the left for literally murderign their spokespeople.

That's fair and completely understandable. I would absolutely not forgive and I would see that the perpetrator paid in full and would desire to personally squeeze the life out of them and I might tell the world.

But I'm also not broadcasting my Christian virtues to the world. It is not my moral-political framework. But it's theirs, and seeing a political figure show actual Christian commitment after decades of listening to hypocrisy from the Christian political right is refreshing! It makes me feel this movement could be a force of actual good and not just a slightly lesser evil!