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If the Cowboys have a million haters, I am one of them.
If the Cowboys have ten haters, I am one of them.
If the Cowboys have one hater, I am him.
If the Cowboys have no haters, that means I am no longer on this earth.
If the World is for the Cowboys, I am against the World. I will hate the Cowboys till my last breath.
Dallas Delenda Est, is what I'm saying.
And even better it's against the 49ers; who I am obligated to by family tradition.
If you can keep it contained to a triviality instead of just generally becoming a hater, I agree with your greater observation as well. I've enjoyed many long blood feuds about which piece of consumer electronics is superior.
DFW resident here. Yeah, that's a fair cop.
My dad had a longstanding personal rule that he won't buy any Cowboys merchandise until Jerry Jones extracts his head from his posterior. He broke that rule last week to buy someone a birthday gift. Let this game be an object lesson.
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More beautiful Cowboys facts:
"Jalen Hurts wasn't born the last time the Cowboys made the conference championship game. That means Hurts' parents had sex, gave birth, raised him, he learned how to play football, went to 'Bama, transferred to OU, got drafted, sat behind Wentz, and then lead his team through a soft-rebuild to the NFC Championship game before Dallas got back." -- David Akers
Dallas Goedert was literally named for the Dallas Cowboys, and he's going to play in the NFC Championship Game before the Cowboys get back to it.
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