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Culture War Roundup for the week of October 13, 2025

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Epithets like “f----t,” “retarded” and “n--ga” appeared more than 251 times combined.

I just found it funny the writers censored out "faggot" and "nigga", but not "retarded". So they're trying to get the list of the worst offensive things that were said but the 3rd item on the list wasn't offensive enough to censor but it's all grouped together to get the 251 count?

Mosiman was derided by members of the chat as “beaner” and “sp-c.”

How come they didn't censor out "beaner", isn't that racist too?

What's with the self-censorship, anyway? Politico had no problem quoting faggot just a year ago:

https://www.politico.com/search?q=faggot&s=newest

Same with bitch, cunt, nigga, nigger, spic, and chink. All words that have appeared in previous politico articles uncensored.

Isn't it great that we can talk in a place where swears are freely allowed? Gah, I love freedom. Thanks mods.

swears are freely allowed

The moderators are aware of the use–mention distinction, but the rules still include "be kind", "be no more antagonistic than is absolutely necessary for your argument", and "write as if everyone were reading and you wanted him to be included in the discussion".

I love you as well, my autistic friend. Thanks for being here.

Yes I understand the rules, but I’m saying with proper context, we are allowed to swear.

More importantly, why didn't they count hard Rs and soft As independently? I need to know how close to a real MW2 lobby we're talking here.

Milo at least is saying there were zero hard-rs. He is very disappointed in these young men.

Gay* men are quipping about having more balls in public than young republicans in private. Grim.