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Culture War Roundup for the week of October 13, 2025

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Because Modern Conservatism™ by and large doesn’t view this as a big deal. See all the responses to your previous top-level post; it’s just not a problem, and if it is then it doesn’t matter; the Left is ultimately such a horrifying boogeyman to The Right that in the end they’ll still side with anyone if it leads to The Left’s defeat- even if it requires ever-more-uncomfortable rationalizations.

This is actually a big tribalist issue that seems to be happening across both aisles right now and it genuinely scares me. There's a joke that goes

Once I saw this guy on a bridge about to jump. I said, "Don't do it!" He said, "Nobody loves me." I said, "God loves you. Do you believe in God?"

He said, "Yes." I said, "Are you a Christian or a Jew?" He said, "A Christian." I said, "Me, too! Protestant or Catholic?" He said, "Protestant." I said, "Me, too! What franchise?" He said, "Baptist." I said, "Me, too! Northern Baptist or Southern Baptist?" He said, "Northern Baptist." I said, "Me, too! Northern Conservative Baptist or Northern Liberal Baptist?"

He said, "Northern Conservative Baptist." I said, "Me, too! Northern Conservative Baptist Great Lakes Region, or Northern Conservative Baptist Eastern Region?" He said, "Northern Conservative Baptist Great Lakes Region." I said, "Me, too!"

Northern Conservative†Baptist Great Lakes Region Council of 1879, or Northern Conservative Baptist Great Lakes Region Council of 1912?" He said, "Northern Conservative Baptist Great Lakes Region Council of 1912." I said, "Die, heretic!" And I pushed him over.

The man in the in the joke is unlucky. Despite all the assumed similarities between the Northern Conservative Baptist Great Lakes Region Council of 1879, and the Northern Conservative Baptist Great Lakes Region Council of 1912 ("on the same side"", he stumbled upon a radical 1879er who supports violence on disagreement.

Had a normie non violence supporting Jew, Hindu, Buddhist, Atheist, or any other religious group member stumbled upon on him, he would still be alive. Despite all the similarities between the two councils, and all the differences between his religions and the other beliefs, the only one that truly matters there is the willingness to use violence.

Look at authoritarian dictatorships and you see something like this. You can be a great and wonderful ally to Xi, or Putin, or Kim Jong Un, you still don't get a pass to disagree with them much. Deng Xiaopeng was a true believer with relatively minor variance from Mao, and he was condemned as the "number two capitalist roader" and purged twice in 1967 and 1976.

Things like the two party system and the idea of "left wing" vs "right wing" leads people to forming tribalist ideas of sides, but there are no sides. There are loose coalitions, with wide disagreements inside them. Communist left wing groups splinter all the time from purity tests and purging, and I'm sure there was plenty of Jews in Germany that approved Hitler's non antisemitic policies yet they died just the same.

The true threat of the Baptist man in the joke isn't the normie atheist, or the normie Hindu, or the normie Buddhist but of "his own side" willing to use violence over disagreement.

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Any thoughts on which side of the political aisle tends to be prone to ruthlessly enforcing purity politics over relatively small schisms?

Things like the two party system and the idea of "left wing" vs "right wing" leads people to forming tribalist ideas of sides, but there are no sides. There are loose coalitions, with wide disagreements inside them. Communist left wing groups splinter all the time from purity tests and purging, and I'm sure there was plenty of Jews in Germany that approved Hitler's non antisemitic policies yet they died just the same.

Unfortunately, the sides we choose are as real as we make them.

Emphasis on the “we” part. It doesn’t matter if you don’t view yourself as being on a particular side if the other person does.