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Directly related to one of the top line comments from last week is an opinion piece by David French - non-paywalled link.
Half of it is snark. The title and lede are designed to get the pearls clutched. A paragraph later, French gives up the sarcasm and goes on at length about how "akshually, Men can be real meanies!"
The complete dodge of any real intellectual engagement with the original Helen Andrews piece is, sadly, totally on brand for what passes as journalistic "editorials" these days. Sohrab Amari previously called out French for being a conserva-cuck. His conclusions remain unchallenged.
And that's the culture war angle I'm actually interested in. The latest battles in the Gender War were pretty well covered in the thread from last week (linked above). Any new insights are welcome on that front, however, my focus is on what I see as an intra-male conflict between boomer conservatives and the Young Right. Now that I think about it, this also links to the "Nasty Republican Group Chat" thread. I am too lazy, now, to link to it.
David French, and many boomer conservatives like him, despised Trump all the way back in 2016 and haven't changed their tune one bit. They do hold some bedrock right/conservative views; taxes shouldn't be so high, gun rights (to an extent), free speech even if it makes people feel icky, pro defense in a broad yet milquetoast sort of way. I suppose they are, at their most "extreme", still committed neo-cons of the Bush 2 era.
And they're all still living in The Matrix. They all believe that we can go back to that perfect little period when ole Ronny was in the White House and everyone was getting rich and you could come home to a steak dinner with the little lady - who, of course, had a degree from Radcliffe and was totally smart and independent but just so happened to truly want to be a stay at home mom. The insane conceit of the BoomerCons is that their worldview rests on a stone foundation of traditionalism establish, through blood, but the Greatest Generation. Where the BoomerCon looks at women in the military without too much worry - well, maybe not in the infantry - the Greatest Generation Grandpa laughs, saying, "I can't imagine a broad landing in Normandy". Where the BoomerCon rolls his eyes at political correctness yet makes sure to use the appropriate terminology ("Dude, Chinaman is not the appropriate nomenclature"), the Greatest Generation Grandpa, that one Thanksgiving, "couldn't believe the number of Spaniards at the grocery store!". Where the BoomerCon pinched his nose during the 2008 bank bailouts - "It's a systemic issue, we have to act!", the Greatest Generation Grandpa laughs "Oh, The Bank lost all your money?! Yeah, I remember the 30s!"
The Young Right is a kind of double-bounced mirror image if the Greatest Generation in terms of their hard-bitten suspicion of the world. Coming of age in the late 2000s, they saw a financial collapse in the middle of an expeditionary war of questionable strategic import. The young men, especially, then had their place in society not changed but neutered starting in about 2013 (the first "cultural appropriation" fracas at Yale). On a larger scale, any economically aware young person sees how the Boomers have systematically rigged the system against them; social security, Medicare/aid, and the home mortgage ponzi scheme. It's intergenerational theft plain and simple.
But the David French's of the world want to, you know, guys, c'mon, pump the breaks. Turn down the temperature. Feminization of American is totally fine...actually, let me tell you about the summer of 1969, oh man, I was at this Grateful Dead show and....
But there is no going back to that. The damage is done and now it's a rebuilding effort in the middle of a hot (culture) war.
I think French is basically right.
Andrews is making one of those famous totalizing theories of history, which invariably take a single phenomenon affecting a single place and time and attempt to make it into a completely general theory of cause and effect. A good analogy would be Marxism.
Totalizing theories fail because the actual material of history is far, far richer and denser than any monocausal theory can provide for (outside of extremely limited forms - think “crop failures drive starvation”). Right now, America specifically is under a great number of pressures, including: an aging population, immigration, the arrogance born of global superiority, gutted industries, old and new racial tensions, the rise of left and then right wokism, the intergenerational humiliations of Vietnam, Iraq, and Afghanistan, Lasch’s Culture of Narcissism, and yes, the monumental rise of women into the public sphere and corresponding retreat in men’s public influence. Each one of these is going to have its own effects and pressures, and to select one as the Cause of Causes is misguided or even benighted.
What I think Andrews is mostly describing is a sharpened tribalistic trend in the public sphere. Calls for ingroup violence are responded to more generously, as points of difference or even decorum are sufficient for a breach. At the same time, objective measures of advantage are taken less seriously, along with other dispassionate perspectives. Overt efforts towards creating entirely new value, or at least taking from the actual Other, are devalued compared to squabbling over internal resources.
But this happens over all places and times, and if I were to offer a theory, is probably more closely related to where people can expect the greatest return on investment for their efforts. While Rome had easy access to the Mediterranean and rich France, she expanded; when she reached the borders of the Sahara, the Atlantic, the Levant, and the Rhine, she turned inward and began warring over what she already had. This is not a complete analysis, but I think it’s a strong gearspring in this particular mechanism. In contrast, ONLY in the modern West have women penetrated the public sphere to such a degree. If there were consequences to this, we should expect to see unique ones, not regurgitations from every struggling power. And indeed, on the family and interpersonal level, we do see massive changes in gender relations. But interestingly, I don’t think those replicate directly to the civilizational level. The problems we are having were experienced by the men of yesteryear. Late Athens is, as always, an apt comparison.
I’m coming at this from a fairly sympathetic perspective. I think there are major problems with how America operates right now, I personally dislike how it feels to operate in a feminized institution, I think the legislative defenses of women have by and large exceeded their period of use now that women are paramount in many areas… and yet I find her overall piece to be lacking. It’s like she’s got cause and effect backwards.
Let me give an analogy. We all know that universities became dramatically more leftist over the past sixty or so years - I think that’s fairly established and supportable. But why? The simple reason is that more conservative individuals did not see the universities as worth fighting over. I know I didn’t. They don’t pay enough, you don’t get enough respect… so I went into industry, and I think that’s where most similar people went too. So the universities were ceded to people who wanted them for reasons nothing to do with wealth or status.
I think the women in industry question is similar. In the areas where women are most dominant, or increasingly dominant, one reason is that they want the job for reasons other than what men want, and are willing to effectively undercut men on that principle. As they do so, the costs for men to enter that industry go up and the rewards go down, so they hit a tipping point and become much more female. If a field were to become more profitable but also more demanding, we’d see a reverse effect where men flood in and squeeze the women - who frequently want more flexibility in their work and don’t like demanding and stressful positions - out. And I think this is happening to some degree in fields like nursing. It’s basically gender roles painted over industrial culture. So what does it mean that, say, being a judge or a lawyer or a Congressman is decreasingly attractive to men, such that they’d push through whatever feminine culture to be one anyway?
So, contra Andrews, my basic thesis is that the basic facts of gendering make some careers more suitable for men than women than vice versa, and that this tends to lead to dramatic differences in sex ratio and subculture, but that the larger cultural differences are separate from this phenomenon. Certainly there is some effect from civil rights legislation, but it’s not the whole story. If you took all the women out, I suspect the men that remain would act, by Andrews’ lights, like a bunch of girls.
Have you read what Andrews wrote ?
Do you truly think we are blank slates disconnected from our biology ? How then do you account for the extreme similarity of social institutions among primitive tribes ? There is no evidence of a matriarchal society - only ever matrilineal. Every known human society has marriage and jealousy. And so on.
Only if they were the kind of men who buy perfume and engage in what used to be called sodomy.
Yes, no, not necessarily, respectively.
No kidding, that's what you believe? That we're some sort of quasi-rational agents not biased by millions of years of mammalian psychology ?
What a strange thing to say. Didn’t I answer “no” there?
If you’re looking for an opportunity to be offended, then I can’t really help you.
Being too terse has its risks.
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