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Small-Scale Question Sunday for October 26, 2025

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When are women going to realize how bad the baggy jeans trend looks (especially as part of a whole loose baggy style)?

Women walk around now looking like they’re in pajamas.

This seems like a lagging element of the anti-beauty aesthetics of woke, and I’m confused how wide spread anti-feminine dress has become

Freddie deBoer talked about this in his article "Our Product is Permission", in which he argued that modern Western society has become overly permissive along numerous axes, one of which is a greater tolerance for slovenly appearances and dressing comfortably in public spaces. Twenty years ago, seeing a woman wearing a Snuggie while stting down to dinner in a posh restaurant would have been unheard of.

I'm hesitant to attribute this trend to "wokeness".

I wouldn't put 2005 on too high a pedestal. This was the period when the height of women's fashion consisted of velvet track suits with "juicy" written in rhinestones across the ass.

But I feel reasonably confident that a woman who showed up to a posh restaurant dressed in such a garment would be turned away. People dressing casually isn't Freddie's complaint: it's the relaxation of standards such that people no longer feel any expectation to dress formally in certain specific contexts.

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