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Culture War Roundup for the week of November 3, 2025

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It is quite fair to be livid about similarly miniscule numbers

The thing is I've been told that it's not, and I never saw you step in before. Can I count on you saying something the next time someone uses this argument?

Anyway, sure, give these people some restitution. Unlike transgender care, this is actually reversible.

The thing is I've been told that it's not, and I never saw you step in before.

I didn't have a precedent to refer to before.

Can I count on you saying something the next time someone uses this argument?

Only if it actually becomes a commonplace bipartisan argument. Otherwise I'll follow the example of other users and keep only using it when it's my side suffering the miniscule excesses.

I didn't have a precedent to refer to before.

How exactly did you run into this forum being absolutely livid about the small number of kids being transed without seeing the "come on, it's just a tiny percentage of people affected"?

Only if it actually becomes a commonplace bipartisan argument.

I literally just agreed with you, what more do you want?

How exactly did you run into this forum being absolutely livid about the small number of kids being transed without seeing the "come on, it's just a tiny percentage of people affected"?

I did see it, I mean I noticed no precedent of the "come on, it's just a tiny percentage" people having had their own tiny percentage they visibly cared about a lot.

I literally just agreed with you, what more do you want?

First, I don't recall you agreeing with me when it was about the tiny number of transed kids. Second, you appear to be one of the three principled autistically-consistent-argument-appliers among seven zillion culture warriors, so unilateral disarmament is not in my interest.

I did see it, I mean I noticed no precedent of the "come on, it's just a tiny percentage" people having had their own tiny percentage they visibly cared about a lot.

Wait, so you're not even arguing for the argument that "It is quite fair to be livid about similarly miniscule numbers" , you're just hypocrisy-policing? If that's what you're going for, are you telling me you never saw anyone being bothered about school shootings?

First, I don't recall you agreeing with me when it was about the tiny number of transed kids.

Uh... surely you must have seen one of my many top-level comments on the subject. If anything I don't remember you saying all that much about it.

Second, you appear to be one of the three principled autistically-consistent-argument-appliers among seven zillion culture warriors, so unilateral disarmament is not in my interest.

Well, if you're just pursuing your interest, why not say that from the top, instead of acting like you're bothered by a violation of a principle?