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So, anything to say about the Joo-posters, the racists, the tranny-haters?
If a Jew started posting like you do with mockery and derision calling people Nazis (including some posters who can actually fairly be called Nazis), would you consider that appropriate for the Motte? If a trans person served some contempt back at you when you are expressing what you think of trans women, would you be cool with that?
These are not rhetorical questions. I really want to know what you think here.
I know about the craziness of some trans activists re: cis women (see all the good wishes they express online towards TERFs).
I expect crazy shit from crazy people. I don't expect it on here precisely because it's supposed to be where we can argue out positions with no holds barred (apart from rules around civility). So I'm smiling wryly at all the "you hate men, that's why you say this!!!!" from guys who were swapping opinions about how women should be deprived of personal choice when it comes to romantic relationships, access to higher education, the vote, age of marriage, number of children, confinement to the domestic sphere and other trivial little instances of life, liberty, and the pursuit of happiness.
I haven't seen anyone accusing you of hating men.
So trans people being offended are just crazy and can be ignored. Okay. But women being offended must be taken very seriously. What about Jews, blacks, and leftists? Just trying to figure out if there is any actual underlying principle to what you think should be modded other than "That which offends me personally is bad and that which doesn't offend me personally is fine."
Lot more women than trans people, for a start.
Mainly, it's in response to guys on here wondering why on earth women don't want to marry (them) and then expressing views which explain why no woman in her right mind and with an ounce of self-respect would marry a man like that.
That doesn't answer a single thing I asked.
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