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Culture War Roundup for the week of November 3, 2025

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He said "gender doesn't exist and god doesn't put people in the bodies of the wrong sex" I wouldn't call that going against trans activism. I'd call that believing that trans people don't exist and anyone claiming so shouldn't be given any special considerations, polite or otherwise.

If I said "god doesn't exist" and want anyone making theological arguments to be denied special considerations for their beliefs, you wouldn't call me "being against christian/jewish/muslim/etc activism"

This is a classic: don't bring up politics at work, end of story. People who do should be fired.

If he had been the one to bring it up that might follow, but it was a reply in a thread about the topic. Gender was brought up by others in an "of course we all agree" fashion, he just replied.

In your example your reply of God Does Not Exist was in reply to a thread about what workplace activities we could do to advance muslim goals then that is very different from saying it in the middle of a budget meeting.

If people who bring up politics at work should be fired then it is the liberals of Google who should be on the block, not him, since they are the ones who brought it up.

Is he being forced to reply? There's this weird behavior some people do where they can't keep their shit to themselves. Some general thread of the topic, some tribal consensus building, and because you disagree, you NEED to respond. Damn the consequences! The TRUTH is the most important thing. Never-mind its truth as you see, it without room for how others do. It's very annoying, self-centered behavior that makes me want to cuff these people like their parents should have.

In your example your reply of God Does Not Exist was in reply to a thread about what workplace activities we could do to advance muslim goals then that is very different from saying it in the middle of a budget meeting.

Are they talking to you? Or are you butting in? There's a bunch of unknowns in this case that make it unclear what the context was. If this was attempting to use funding from his department/group, then he has lee-way to intercede. But if a general google forum for their workplace is having this discussion, then he's engaging in asocial behavior trying to butt in and swing his dick around, being a "Debate Me Bro" at work.

If people who bring up politics at work should be fired then it is the liberals of Google who should be on the block, not him, since they are the ones who brought it up.

Your terms are absolutely acceptable. I want near zero tolerance for this shit. It's annoying unprofessional behavior.

If people who bring up politics at work should be fired then it is the liberals of Google who should be on the block, not him, since they are the ones who brought it up.

"That's not politics, that's common decency" -- leftists on Google's internal forums.