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PaperclipPerfector  15hr ago (text post)   392 thread views

Friday Fun Thread for November 14, 2025

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I'm going to a funeral. Any recommendations for funeral-friendly jokes? (I'm not going to tell risky jokes at a funeral; I just thought "funeral-friendly jokes" would be a good "Friday Fun" prompt.)

Edit: Someone wore navy slacks with black shoes and a black sweater. Another guest wore a blue jacket with tan slacks and looked fine, albeit a little out of place, but the navy slacks with an otherwise black outfit just looked bad and tacky. (I, admittedly, do not have any black shoes, so wore matte dark brown shoes with an otherwise black outfit, but I figured that if everything else you're wearing is black/grey, anyone who cares about the difference between black and matte dark brown shoes is paying too close attention.)

Will echo the funny PG-level anecdotes as an approach if you're speaking

Another thing I'd suggest is making a dedicated effort to engage with smaller groups and individuals. When someone dies, the unique person they were to all of those different combinations of other people dies with them.

When a buddy of mine died, I talked with his mom about how dedicated a friend he was. Our teenage pothead team reminisced about freezing in the backyard treehouse with the 2-liter coke bottle bongs he'd slapped together for the night. I let another friend her vent about how strange it was to have a slightly-inconsiderate-lover-but-still-a-good-guy pass away while those strange and sexual memories were still so intact.

My condolences as well.

My condolences as well.

Thanks.

Funny anecdotes are likely the ones that will be the most appreciated, as long as the deceased is not the butt of the joke.

Depends on the funeral. Attendees will be much more open to jokes at the funeral of an 80-year-old practical joker who died peacefully in their sleep than at the closed casket funeral of a teenaged drunk driving victim.

Stick to jokes the deceased would have loved, even better if they're jokes the deceased loved to tell all the time. Frame it as a remembrance rather than just an attempt to lighten the mood. In general I would also recommend being a little overly careful/conservative. Humor can be very soothing on the grieving, but you dont want to risk being insensitive.

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