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Wellness Wednesday for November 19, 2025

The Wednesday Wellness threads are meant to encourage users to ask for and provide advice and motivation to improve their lives. It isn't intended as a 'containment thread' and any content which could go here could instead be posted in its own thread. You could post:

  • Requests for advice and / or encouragement. On basically any topic and for any scale of problem.

  • Updates to let us know how you are doing. This provides valuable feedback on past advice / encouragement and will hopefully make people feel a little more motivated to follow through. If you want to be reminded to post your update, see the post titled 'update reminders', below.

  • Advice. This can be in response to a request for advice or just something that you think could be generally useful for many people here.

  • Encouragement. Probably best directed at specific users, but if you feel like just encouraging people in general I don't think anyone is going to object. I don't think I really need to say this, but just to be clear; encouragement should have a generally positive tone and not shame people (if people feel that shame might be an effective tool for motivating people, please discuss this so we can form a group consensus on how to use it rather than just trying it).

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Some causes (usually it is one or more of these):

-You are older and your body sucks now (and did not before).

-You are dehydrated.

-You don't move your body enough.

-Your diet doesn't have enough fiber.

-You are fat.

-Your bowel habits suck in some other way that is catching up with you (like holding things in too long, you might need a squatty potty, etc.).

-Weirder stuff like psychiatric stuff, hormones.

-Serious medical conditions (may be worth getting stuff checked).

-Other substances that impact bowels. Too much or too little caffeine (or withdrawal from the same).

Usually common sense adjustments for these things will help. See a doctor. Only after that is it worth something like PEG, Senna, etc.

Usual high fiber stuff like Metamucil, Prunes, Fiber soda whatever.... all of this is sustainable.

Also important to get this addressed early to rule out serious conditions, and perhaps to prevent things like hemorrhoids, fissures, diverticulitis.