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Culture War Roundup for the week of January 30, 2023

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These criticisms can apply to virtually every community. Every single community that has both young men and women in it, and which doesn’t cling to the values of young marriage and gender separation, will have these issues. They’re found in every music and art scene, every socialist community, every college house party, Hollywood and so on. Hit pieces like these are just a way for the powerful to selectively come down on whichever community they want to destroy. And if you form a community which actually has structure in the way of preventing these problems, like Mike Pence and his evangelicalism, they’ll write a hit piece about you, too!

The proper response is to start interviewing Time Magazine employees, and cataloguing how many more of them are doing much worse — probably with cocaine rather than psychedelics.

which doesn’t cling to the values of young marriage and gender separation

These too, though I think these practices help, at least in my experience.

The autist women of the EA community write hit pieces on their own community, you can't fault the media for taking such easy bait

Hell, young marriage and gender separation may not save you, e.g. Mormons.