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Culture War Roundup for the week of December 15, 2025

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This is right in line with standard government policy on all products:

Restrict supply and subsidize demand.

The end result is skyrocketing prices.


The opposite would look like:

only families with kids under 18 get to buy single family homes. - restricting demand

Housing construction companies get massive tax write-offs for each house they construct. - subsidizing supply

I guess that's closer to China policy.

But the end goal isn't lower-priced houses, it's more children. If the only way to afford a single family home became to have 3+ children, more people would have them? Also, I don't think you're taking into account that people would still need to qualify for the mortgage, meaning the total house value can't be so high that the two parents can't afford it. This policy just takes out saving up for it which is onerous given that the mid 20s is the best biological time for babies.

Though my policy combined with something like:

  • All houses with 4+ rooms and 0 residents under 18 for 5 consecutive years is subject to a 200% property tax increase.

Would help move the current housing stock around and help to some extent.

The issue is that the more you push policies that are "fuck you for not having a girlfriend" at young men, the more likely you are to get young men who choose violence. If a man can't afford housing, so can't actually end up in a stable enough situation to attract a partner and have kids, then there isn't a good reason to not just rebel against the entire system.

If we're going to punish men who don't have a partner more than not having a partner is a penalty in and of itself, we're going to disproportionately be punishing men who are more educated (quick googling shows that men who have higher education levels are more likely to be both unmarried and virgins).

Except women are also punished for not marrying in this scenario. Which would help a bit with pair bonding early on.

Demand is mostly consumers, supply is mostly corporations.

People (consumers) really don't like the government telling them they can't do stuff. Corporations are much more used to it, and it's professional so their employees don't care so much.