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naraburns  nihil supernum  1yr ago (text post)   2665 thread views

Friday Fun Thread for February 3, 2023

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https://aella.substack.com/p/chaos-survey-results-pt-1

Some choice gender differences:

Statements most disproportionately agreed upon by women

(number in parentheses is the difference in score between women and men)

  • I prefer written pornography to visual. (1.74)

  • I keep a journal. (1.21)

  • I would feel violated if I learned that my opposite-sex friend was imagining what I would be like to have sex with. (1.19)

Statements most disproportionately agreed upon by men

  • The primary reason I interact with Aella's web presence is a (dimly) conscious desire to do something sexual with her. (1.93)

  • I often imagine having sex with stranger I see in public. (1.79)

  • I would bang a hot 15yo if I had enthusiastic consent and a certainty of getting away with it (1.58)

We should just ignore these surveys, the selection effects for people who respond are much too strong. Doesn't tell us much about regular people.

This isn't true though - just the headline 'Statements most disproportionately agreed upon by women/men' are true across the general population. Women do like written porn more than men, men do want to 'bang hot 15yos' more than women. Which makes other, less obvious results more plausible.

Not really. It seems intuitive to me (from long personal experience of perverts and deviants, I got Gladwell's mythical 10,000 hours in) that the normal stuff and the weird stuff don't correlate. The average sexually submissive freak who is into degradation still likes football more than hockey, still puts pants on one leg at a time, still prefers Coke to Pepsi. But they're much more likely to be in favor of sexually submissive degradation shit. You can't say: well the audience prefers Coke to Pepsi, so in audiences that prefer coke to pepsi they also have a 49% incidence of liking getting spit on.

Exactly, just because it gets 1 thing right doesn't mean everything is right.

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