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If it is the case that everything traces to Ev Psych, then the “environment” of the progressive woman is torturous: your tribe has been deposed from power and the enemy tribe now rules over your old territory (he is “not my President”); their warriors now invade the dwellings to snatch away the little ones (Guatemalans and Ecuadorians short in stature whom she has been made to identify with as tribal equals — they cook the communal meals in the longhouse). The evolutionarily-correct response to this is to literally scream and stress all the men in the vicinity. Someone should do a survey to see whether political radicalization among women is negatively correlated to whether their husbands are rich / tall / strong / possessing abundant acreage, as these things would lead to a primal sense of safety and security. It is obviously lower in religious women who believe in a strong and mighty God, paternalistic and providing, who exacts vengeance against enemies in time. (Where are all the stressed out Somali women? They are psychologically buffered against this.)
Or more like the enemy tribe has recently had some minor successes in reclaiming some territory that your tribe long ago captured, but the enemy tribe is still far from deposing your tribe from power or ruling over your territory as a whole.
Since the ev. psych. playbook of women, when their tribe is defeated and conquered, would be to shrug and submit to the conquerors.
It reminds me of the trope associated with street fight videos, where uninvolved women can be commonly heard screaming. Men engaged in combat; women most affected.
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