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Culture War Roundup for the week of February 6, 2023

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That is not impossible, but I am very skeptical that, in 2023, someone thought it was a good idea to celebrate Black History Month by serving watermelon. That would have been cringe 40 years ago.

There are many cringe stereotypes from previous eras that are now inexplicably being reassesed as authentic ethnic and cultural expressions.

It's certainly not unanimous, and it has resulted in many eyebrow-raising episodes like this one. But I can absolutely see a well-intentioned 2020s progressive pushing for watermelon and chicken during Black History Month, and being caught completely flat-footed when this doesn't go over well at all.

I'm not totally sure that's what happened here, but its not remotely in the realm of disbelief either. The cultural consensus of the 90s and 00s continues to fracture further, so I no longer use it as a touchstone for how I predict people to largely act today.

The usual example of this with African American culture is black eyed peas(international name cowpeas), which, being beans, are far less easy to get people to actually want to eat. Although I suppose it’s possible.

Perhaps, but watermelon is particularly cringe, given its specific history. Though of course, I suppose the person in charge of the menu might be young and unaware of the history. But, if they were aware, and did it anyway, then Aramark should apologize and I rescind my statement that the incident is idiotic.

There are many cringe stereotypes from previous eras that are now inexplicably being reassesed as authentic ethnic and cultural expressions.

Not "inexplicably". The "cringe stereotypes" were based on authentic ethnic expressions.

That certainly seems to be the takeaway I'm left with, given how progs have boxed in these arguments. And I don't think they appreciate how psychically destructive it is. Like everything you were taught from your childhood upbringing to adulthood was actually just total bullshit, and we all decided this last year.

This is the kind of thing that annihilates any and all integrity of your political project, AFAIC. gj

I am very skeptical that, in 2023, someone thought it was a good idea to celebrate Black History Month by serving watermelon. That would have been cringe 40 years ago.

And yet somehow Aramark also managed to do so just four years ago. I feel like you are being exactly as skeptical as you should be, about exactly the wrong things.

All the more reason to think that it was not intentional this time.