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Yes, we are currently in a civil war. Both sides have internally consistent moral claims for exterminating the other. The sooner you realize that, the sooner you can make more productive choices.
Obviously it's a matter of semantics, but I would say it's more of an intifada than a war. In the sense that one side is attempting to get its way by means of sustained and systematic lawbreaking, violence, and the like. If both sides go that route, then yeah, it's a war.
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The "one of us" post you link complains about the left using "lies" (your word for their exaggeration / selective reporting of facts). But then you go and say things like "we are in a civil war" which is so obviously not true. Maybe we're on the path towards one, but even that is super debatable (and regularly debated here).
I just want you to know that I can't take you seriously when you hypocritically call other people out for stupid-language-tactics and then do your own stupid-language-tactics. Again, I'm sure you have lots of justifications for this tactic (many of which are valid!), but as a tactic for achieving your goal of getting me on your side, your rhetoric is failing.
I might prove to be wrong (it happens, but rarely). I am not lying. I sincerely believe that from the very depths of my being. But radical truths often sound like inflammatory rhetoric, so I don't blame you.
I'm not claiming you are wrong or lying. I am claiming you are ineffective.
If you are correct, then a more effective communication style (i.e. more consistent/less inflammatory) will probably get you the results you want faster. At least with me and fellow mottizens if not the general public.
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Would you find it surprising to know that only 20% of Democrats believe Kirk's killing was justified? https://www.cloudresearch.com/resources/blog/justifying-murder/
Or that only 40% of Republicans believe Pretti's killing was justified? https://today.yougov.com/politics/articles/53972-what-americans-think-about-immigration-enforcement-and-the-death-of-alex-pretti
The 40% does not surprise me, Republicans are substantially less intelligent than Democrats and often drawn from the same plebian gene-pool as the police and military. It is reasonable to expect them to express some level of tribal sympathy or at least reserve judgment towards their compatriots.
What I find more concerning is that 1 in 5 of our ostensibly moral and intellectual "betters" see murdering a man in cold blood in front of his wife as not only a reasonable but laudable means of resolving a political disagreement.
I'm trying very hard here not to go full "doomer" but I'm finding it harder and harder to believe that this is something we are going to be able to talk our way out of.
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Not really; there's a lot of room for society-poisoning callousness outside of a strict justified, on both sides.
The poll offers us an interesting look into question framing 20% of Democrats who responded stated that the killing was justified and 44% stated that Charlie Kirk's killing had no negative effect on the discourse.
If we assume perfect overlap 20% of Democrats who support the killing of one's political opponents and another 24% who would not object to their political opponents being killed even if they wouldn't do it themselves. In other words, close to 1 out of every 2 democrats who responded have already revealed that they are at least "ok" with the idea of politically-motivated murder.
Yet when asked directly to agree with the statement “I am okay with political violence against those I disagree with” only 4% actually did so which begs the question, which is the real preference.
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Sounds like as a radical centrist my productive choice would the extermination of everyone that's a knuckle dragging ape who thinks we are in a civil war and can't get along.
Just looked out my window, I currently don't see a war going on. My left and right wing coworkers seem to get along just fine, as do my friends of various political persuasions. The only people who seem to think we are at war are the terminally online, mentally ill folks.
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