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Culture War Roundup for the week of January 26, 2026

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Then I'd say that Alice should perhaps make an agreement with a particularly scarce resource she is statistically overwhelmingly likely to possess, so that she can get all the things on the high shelves she wants in exchange for allowing [a] Bob exclusive access to that particular resource.

In other words, this is why marriage exists.

Genitals and reproductive systems are not a resource, and making women's survival contingent on marriage has often given abusive men the ability to inflict terrible suffering on them.

Genitals and reproductive systems are not a resource

[Citation needed.] What's the world's oldest profession?

and making women's survival

The same forces that made women's survival contingent on marriage (a physical toil) are the same forces that made men's survival contingent on physical toil. This is an isolated demand for rigor.

Of course, your theses force you into that demand, because those theses are functionally indistinguishable from "find in favor of Alice at all times". As I mentioned in the other comment, this enables Alice to functionally rack up infinite debt, and take on infinite risk, that Bob is then expected to pay for- with no other justification for that burden than "but he's better". How convenient that the lesser claim the greater is indebted to them.

has often given abusive men the ability to inflict terrible suffering on them.

Yeah, I hate working for shitty bosses too. But, as they say, it's a living.