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Wellness Wednesday for February 11, 2026

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New Year's resolution check in

  1. Work: Terrible week at work. Boss forgot to plug in the water supply to the fly incubator, so humidifier ended up cooking all our flies, including some stocks that it took me years to make! This sets me back a month or two which is really annoying.
  2. Fitness: 11 hours last week! Started track night Tuesday's again and had a surprisingly low heart rate for what I hope will be my marathon pace in October (workout was 8x 3 min at tempo, I averaged 5:50 pace and my heart rate was around 170, which is right at the edge of Z2/Z3 for me). I woke up a little wrecked this morning and skipped this morning's session: hoping this doesn't compromise volume for the week.
  3. Intellectual Stuff: Finished my first Spanish book this year and HP7 in Italian! Got my blog posts for this month planned, and got another paid subscriber on substack (it's my friend emory so it feels like it doesn't count.
  4. Finances: Going well this month. Earned $400 extra from opening a new checking account at Wells Fargo (guess they want my mortgage) and will be earning extra on cat sitting throughout the month.
  5. Dating: Had a pretty disregulated Sunday as I got super drunk at tavern run (~13 mile run+bar crawl) and ended up bypassing all my controls and masturbating to porn. Decided to pause all my dating apps and focus on building real life connections that may or may not turn into anything.
  6. Screen time on my phone is at an hour/day, despite my binge on Sunday. Need to update my controls to better prevent binging in the future.
  7. No tarot this week. Giving the ex-roomate some space.
  8. Socializing: Tavern run was awesome, always great to hang out with the whole running community here. Otherwise have had a good balance of social activity and rest this week. Would like to host a dinner party this month or next.

How goes it @FtttG and @oats_son? I enjoyed your blog post on rejection quite a bit last week FttG!

Between that whiskey tasting last week and planning lots of gun stuff, I seem to have not done much in the last week...

  • I was running outside for a couple blocks and slipped and fell on some ice last Thursday and hurt my elbow and my knee. Due to this, I haven't been running. I tried going to the gym yesterday, but I was too tired or something. I walked/tried cardio machines absentmindedly for 15 minutes and then left.
  • I had a very rocky week last week for the diet, with 3 days that I didn't track calories and likely became satiated, but somehow, that hasn't really had much effect on the diet. I weighed 179.9 lbs this morning. I made turkey hamburgers on Saturday that were pretty damn good and somehow stayed within my diet for the day. Rye bread that I toasted on the frying pan and added cheese to and melted on top and added salt. Yesterday I went to Sam's Club and picked up a couple rotisserie chickens; I took off all the dark meat off the bone and froze it. Maybe I'll do the same to the breast meat. I wonder if you can boil rotisserie chicken bone to get more flavor out of it...
  • Anki backlog is DONE. Unfortunately, I haven't really done much Japanese besides it. Learning new words with a clean backlog is good, but I've been kinda tired and too addicted to Tarkov to read much. I kinda dreaded this Wellness Wednesday because I have done a terrible job reading an article every day in the last week...
  • Incredibly, I haven't played Dark Souls III, either. I think reading for half an hour before bed would be good for me and for progress on the book.
  • No tennis, but I did take my Ruger 10/22 to a gunsmith to get a screw out that I had stripped, and he was some old guy who invited me to go shoot trap at the nearby trap shooting club on Sunday. Apparently my apartment lets me keep a shotgun, who knew?

It's Wednesday, but to keep it a Wednesday of Wellness, I shall not attend "Whiskey and Wings Wednesday" today! Too much! I thought there was a trivia night this week, but it's next week. There's a "Primary Candidate Forum for Republicans" tomorrow. That probably wouldn't be very interesting and it probably wouldn't further my social life desires.

Also it's @FtttG. You didn't actually ping him.

I was running outside for a couple blocks and slipped and fell on some ice last Thursday and hurt my elbow and my knee.

Oof. Last year I tripped and sprained my ankle, whole thing turned purple and swelled up such that the only pair of shoes that fit me were my Timberlands. Best off just resting and keeping your leg elevated, if you try to exercise on it you'll only make it worse.

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