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Small-Scale Question Sunday for February 15, 2026

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How do you handle it when people ask for your political opinions in real life?

I had a woman ask me suddenly, out of the blue, "who did you vote for in the last election?" We were having a nice conversation before that point (not like, a meet-cute instant love or antyhing, but at least it was a good conversation). I answered truthfully that I had just recently changed my address at that time, so I didn't vote, because I was dealing with a lot and it just wasn't worth the effort for me of updating my voter info on top of everything else. She instantly made an annoyed face and turned away, never to talk to me again. She was obviously a liberal- god help me if I had said I voted for Trump. But like, what are we supposed to do in these situations? Is it just impossible to talk to people with different political opinions now?

She instantly made an annoyed face and turned away, never to talk to me again.

Sounds like that would've happened sooner or later regardless of your answer to that one question. It might as well be "sooner".

But like, what are we supposed to do in these situations? Is it just impossible to talk to people with different political opinions now?

There's not much you can do if someone else doesn't want to talk with you. Lying and hiding your beliefs might work, but that's not much of a solution.

I was having a nice time talking to her until this one mind-killer topic came up. Guess I'll just wait until there's a democrat in the white house until I'm allowed to talk to women.

... until I'm allowed to talk to women.

That one specific woman. Try again and hope that the next one is a bit more openminded.