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PaperclipPerfector  1mo ago (text post)   3211 thread views

Friday Fun Thread for February 20, 2026

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This analysis is obviously correct, but in addition to the surface-level unattractiveness of the common lesbian gender presentation, I would add that you cannot cleanly separate sexually-motivated lesbianism from politically-motivated lesbianism. Accordingly, a woman avowing lesbianism is a pretty strong signal that she isn't merely unattracted to men, but is instinctually and ideologically misandrist. Some guys are actually into that on some level or another, but it certainly complicates the naive "two women, twice as hot" interpretation. It is extremely likely that a lesbian would not merely be unattainable to a straight man, but would be interpersonally unpleasant towards him in a platonic context.

Apparently there's a complaint among actual lesbians that their dating market is flooded with self-described queer women, whom they quickly find aren't actually particularly attracted to women or interested in sex with them, they just want to cuddle, do girly stuff, and talk about how much they hate men.

Yes, I was tempted to mention something about how some of the most prominent American lesbians are joyless, humorless scolds (Rapinoe in particular). There's nothing fun or sexy about being told off or urged to check one's privilege.

And a lesbian Heated Rivalry tv series would be unthinkable (maybe as japanese anime?). The plot for a western tv series would need to be political/feminist with any male gaze avoided. The asshole-antagonists would be men who get their comeuppance. But the gays don't care to serve as fantasy for the female gaze as long as they can watch hot guys get naked too.

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