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PaperclipPerfector  11d ago (text post)   2342 thread views

Small-Scale Question Sunday for March 29, 2026

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Looking for anti-woke books on parenting, preferably secular. How does raise children to not be woke? How does one teach them the gospel of success through hard work and mastery through practice? How does one handle the hypergamy question? How to balance tolerance with an appropriate level of caution around "inner-city youth"?

Reality check: You can stand against society alone, but to raise kids, as one wise stateswoman said, you need a village.

Your kids need peer group of people with the same beliefs who will stand with them and support them.

Otherwise, it is just all media, school and society telling them W, while dad alone is rambling non-W. Why should they follow the old dodgering dodger?

Just one sad example: case of Adrienne Black.

Born as Don Black in racist family and raised as racist. Not some Klansman primitive, but devoted scientific HBDIQ aware racist. Little Don knew his IQ tables and bell curves as soon as he learned to read.

Dad was prominent white supremacist and Internet pioneer.

He did everything he could to raise Junior in racism and white supremacy.

And all his efforts were undone on New College of Florida by power of Jewish friendship and love.

In May 2013, Black started to befriend several Jewish people on campus, and gradually realized that her own beliefs were wrong after attending multiple Friday night dinners with Jewish friends.

Wikipedia:

She recalled of these dinners:

I would say, "This is what I believe about I.Q. differences, I have 12 different studies that have been published over the years, here’s the journal that's put this stuff together, I believe that this is true, that race predicts I.Q. and that there were I.Q. differences in races." And they would come back with 150 more recent, more well researched studies and explain to me how statistics works and we would go back and forth until I would come to the end of that argument and I'd say, Yes that makes sense, that does not hold together and I'll remove that from my ideological toolbox but everything else is still there. And we did that over a year or two on one thing after another until I got to a point where I didn’t believe it anymore.[8]

In 2013, Black wrote a public statement to the Southern Poverty Law Center, publicly renouncing her views.

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