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Many of the self described feminist, and many leftist i ran into quite literally believe this. Maybe its just been my experience, but I've ran into people both online an personally who think that men and women are essentially the same at birth, & that patriarchy makes us different. I agree this is not the case, but as I've addressed in the original post, this fact is rejected by many within our society, perhaps my experience with such people differ from yours.
A lot of the resistance to these facts probably come down to the fact that they: 1 - basically prove gender essentiallism to an extent 2 - Can be used to argue for gendered treatment of individuals. I dont think either of those are wrong, but a lot of theses types do.
Yes, but I'm not sure what information you get by noticing that, other than "people believe what is obviously self-serving/in their sociofinancial interest to believe". Which is true for everyone, including classical liberals.
No, it's avoided because it provides an alternative (or rather, the logical/unselfish conclusion) to "
feminineneutral vs.conservativemasculine" sense of "gendered" treatment (since at present, we only have non-gendered treatment in the 'in its majestic equality, the law bars men and women alike from acting like men' sense).More options
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