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I always read disclaimers like yours and think have you tried religion. Fairly certain you are younger than me in part because everyone younger than me seems to have mental health illnesses. Why does everyone younger than me have depression or ADHD. I am 100% comfortable in my skin. I am not 100% confident in my accomplishments.
I probably do have alcoholism. It’s likely in part genetic. Son of a bar owner. I remember someone younger saying I had an aura; that seems to just be comfortable in yourself which is really weird to younger people today.
I know plenty of people without depression or ADHD? My age, older, and younger. They're the majority, especially when accounting for self-diagnosis or the wink-wink kind of diagnosis that's the legal way to get stimulants and extra time on tests.
I have technically tried religion, in the sense that I prayed sincerely once, at the age of 4, and then became an outright atheist at the age of 5. Didn't knock it before I tried it, and it didn't stick.
Well done, this is why I eschew arithmetic and wiping my asshole. Who needs it!
You seem to be doing just fine, as long as I don't get close enough to smell you, it doesn't count. And neither do you, apparently.
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Being honest I tell people to do the exact opposite of what you have done for your mental health so your lifestyle is a huge red flag to me. I tell everyone I know to NEVER see a psychologists and your a psychologists.
Uh.. I'm not a psychologist.
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