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Wait until you get into a boundary dispute or want to sell land or buy land or are in a court fight with a neighbour over whose responsibility it is that that tree branch broke off and fell on the roof of your car and damaged it. Arguments over closing off rights of way. Access to your land through someone else's property.
You'll see the point of maintaining established walls then. "Here is the land registry where the boundaries are marked. Here are the traditional paths."
Suppose Frost decides not to keep the apple orchard, now he's keeping goats or pigs. Or he wants to expand the orchard. Let the wall fall, then encroach on the neighbour's land and claim no, that was his patch all along. Same for the neighbour. I'm sure Frost would have been all for the neighbour making up his own mind whether to mend the wall or let it fall - right up until it came to "hey, why are you on my land?" when the neighbour started planting pine trees beside the apple orchard.
"Good fences make good neighbours" because it keeps you out of court.
the fence in Frost's poem is a metaphor for inherited rules (and sayings). i am not arguing for removal of literal property boundaries but for assessing which traditions serve us before mending them reflexly.
Before the metaphor, there is the reality of the falling-down wall. Fix your leaky roof first, then philosophise all you like about "but isn't this just blindly reflexive tradition?" Though if you like sitting under the rain streaming down your walls, well that's your choice.
i agree that practical walls (and roofs) serve real functions.
but do you ever assess which walls require mending? or do you mend every wall on reflex?
The broken wall is the wall that gets mended, but an ounce of prevention is worth a pound of cure: maintenance so the wall doesn't break in the first place is cheaper and better.
i think we are operating at different levels. my original argument was whether one should assess which inherited rules to maintain, not whether practical maintenance is useful. i agreed (later) that it is useful.
but "an ounce of prevention" applied universally to all walls, all rules, all traditions, sometimes with the urgency of leaky roofs, is exactly the unreflective position i was describing. the question is not whether to maintain walls, it is which ones, and why?
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