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Is "schizoid personality disorder" a real thing that the medical industry can help me with? I did some psychometric testing a while ago and was told I might have that -- I suspect primarily based on some questionnaire responses where I indicated that I was content with not really having any friends or engaging in any social activities. (I still mostly feel that way, but it's a bit of a panic whenever I need to scrounge up an emergency contact or a personal reference for something, and I sometimes wonder if it's like one of those Mr. Beast videos where a guy sees color for the first time and can finally appreciate the full richness and beauty of human existence.)
I don't think there is anything as crude as a treatment for this particular issue, especially if you're feeling fine about it yourself and are no trouble for others. If that is your genuine personality, you'll likely continue to feel that way for a good while.
But from having watched some people grow old and dependent there is a general rule that the less family & friends some has, the more pitiful the state you will end up in. There is very little as disgraceful as the actual reality of elder care homes. Friends can at least keep you active and mentally aware for a while longer. The best cases I'm aware of invariably involve the presence of a personal caretaker who genuinely knows and likes you, and the regular visits of friends and family. Maybe you'll get lucky and stay in full possession of your mental faculties as well as sufficient physical capabilities until you die relatively suddenly, who knows.
So even if it may feel like a hassle, I'd strongly suggest trying anyway.
All of my grandparents had pretty severe dementia, so I think I'm cooked no matter what I do. I'm just hoping my country gets MAID / right-to-die sorted out in time.
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