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Seems clear that you aren't reading my responses so this will be the last one.
No, there's basically zero difference in hassles for married with/without children in each group. The difference in means is tiny compared to the SDs. Differences between Amish and genpop exist for all categories of women.
Meaningless. Married genpop have fewer hassles than single married.
No other metrics besides hassle break out the effect of kids. If you don't like it, please find a better source rather than pretend that it shows something it doesn't.
Better yet - find a wife, have a kid, and let me know how relaxing it turns out to be. I might as well be arguing with an LLM for all the life experience you have in this department. At least the LLM has read more than one study.
Nope, never married in general population are 10% further hassled totally (where 100% is maximally hassled) than married Amish with children
Does this support your original argument? Even so the difference is larger compared to Amish. But all the differences have a fine p value.
By the way you respond I am very skeptical of how honest you are about stress
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