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So Americans want to sacrifice innocent women in the name of feminism? Why are they so feminist?
Women 99% of the time cannot rape men. If they pull it off, they also threatened them with a deadly weapon which is enough of a charge I think. Also Americans overpunish „rape” since they have expanded the concept far beyond what it actually means. So wanting to not overpunish „rape” is another aspect of their excessive cruelty.
This woman isn’t ’innocent’ although she’s also not a rapist.
By that standard, nobody is innocent.
I don't have much sympathy for fornicators running into consequences, even if those consequences happen to be ridiculous.
I am sympathetic to that, but it is ultimately a self own, because you live in a society where you are almost forced to fornicate, so it's not the big evil you think it is. Let's say you marry early. You can't marry that early because the type of people who prosecute the woman won't let you marry until 18. Can you marry at 18? Is your wife older than you? Exact same age? What are the odds of that? Is it natural? They won't let you marry a 16 year old when you're 18, they'll throw you in prison like the 28 year old woman with the hopes that Travonius tears you up a little if you catch my drift. So if your wife is a normal amount younger than you, you're probably 21 or 22 by the time you're allowed to touch her ... when did you start feeling horny, 12? So just wait 9 or 10 years, no big deal? No sympathy for„gooners” either, so if a boy looks up lascivious girls his age, or his future wife's age, during this time, your FBI will arrest him and sentence him as an adult to some United States justice. It's okay, I mean you can have sympathy for horny people? They're just young men anyway, and everybody hates them.
Yes, wait ten years. Don't be a male dog mom, sublimating the natural urges into improper and destructive behavior. Foofoo the chinese food dog doesn't like being pushed in a stroller, and doing it is bad for his owner, just the same as sex for pleasure without commitment is bad for both parties- unloving and self destructive by inculcating vicious habits.
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