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Culture War Roundup for the week of June 1, 2026

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No: I asked you for a specific example of the reverse, wherein a brown victim is handcuffed while the white aggressor is left alone.

It barely happens in any racial direction!

Almost every bit of violence is done by people who knew each other beforehand. Therefore, almost every case where this stupid assumption gets made is done in cases where people knew each other beforehand.

But also nice changing your words

I don't know why you brought up domestic abuse calls, as that doesn't seem remotely relevant to my request

As you said

If you can show me that, or even something vaguely analogous, I will consider the possibility that there are no real CW aspects to this awful case.

You don't think that one of the most common forms of violence regularly having this exact issue is even "vaguely analogous"? I would say it's not even vaguely! It's one of the most common forms of violence!

That has literally nothing to do with this case. I don't know why you're bringing it up. It's completely irrelevant. We're not talking about police arresting both parties out of an excess of caution. We're talking about the police arresting one person, and it being the wrong one.

Yes, cops do that pretty often. Which is why the smarter departments and officers take a dual arrest approach, cause they don't want to make that common mistake. There are still plenty of stupid or lazy or uncaring cops who just assume calm = good.

It barely happens in any racial direction!

So, you can't cite an example of the thing I requested? You mean (contrary to what you earlier claimed) this case is unique?

You don't think that one of the most common forms of violence regularly having this exact issue is even "vaguely analogous"?

When I said "vaguely analogous" I was referring to the white aggressor/brown victim component of my request. I would have accepted, for example, an instance in which a white aggressor non-lethally assaulted a brown victim, and the police arrested the brown victim while leaving the white aggressor alone. But it seems you can't even produce one of those.

Yes, cops do that pretty often.

If it's the case that cops arrest the wrong party pretty often, show me one. Show me a case where the cops arrested the wrong person, and that person was non-white while their aggressor was white. Otherwise I don't even know what we're doing here.

So, you can't cite an example of the thing I requested? You mean (contrary to what you earlier claimed) this case is unique?

The specifics of "random guy attacks another random guy" is pretty rare in general yeah, including across racial boundaries. Most violence is done by people who knew each other beforehand.

The phenomenon of "cops assume calm person who spoke to them first is innocent" is not so rare. That's extremely common and happens across the board. Mostly to "they knew each other beforehand cases" but that's because those are the large large majority of violent crime!

If you want specifically race, sure https://atlantablackstar.com/2023/01/28/colorado-police-arrest-black-woman-after-74-year-old-white-man-objected-to-how-she-parked-at-store-and-scuffled-with-her/

That too of course is rare though, because most violence is done by people who knew each other beforehand. And therefore cases of police arresting the wrong victim in stranger on stranger violence in any racial direction are inherently rare, while the overall phenomenon of police making mistakes is not.

Okay – so if it's not so rare, it shouldn't be difficult for you to find an example which is at least broadly comparable to this one, but with reversed racial dynamics. It doesn't have to be an altercation between two strangers: surely it shouldn't be difficult for you to find an instance in which two male friends of different races (or even two female) got into a fight, the non-white one was clearly more severely injured, but the police arrested him rather than the visibly less injured white party. There must be tens of thousands of hours of publicly available bodycam footage out there, and I'm confident that woke people would be screaming the house down about racial profiling if an event like this had transpired. But despite claiming that Henry Nowak's case isn't especially unique, you can't come up with even one example with the racial dynamics reversed. How strange.

Sure I'll go check a chatbot for another example than the one I gave and doublecheck to make sure it's not hallucinating.

It gave me (with edits to cut out fat).

Florida — Markeis McGlockton shooting (2018, USA)

Legal outcome:

Drejka was initially not arrested at the scene. Later charged and convicted of manslaughter after public pressure.

Why it fits your request partially: It’s a self-defense claim used by a white aggressor against a Black victim, showing how police initially accepted the shooter’s framing of events.

Double check and yep it seems to be real.

Okay, so a case in which

  • a black man starts an altercation with a white man (captured on CCTV)
  • which escalated to the white man shooting the black man
  • the white man patiently waited for the police to arrive, was cooperative when they did so, and admitted what he'd done
  • the police immediately took the white man to the station for questioning when they arrived on the scene
  • the police did not put the black victim in handcuffs when they arrived on the scene, but instead had paramedics rush him to the hospital

... what exactly do you think this case is meant to illustrate regarding the non-uniqueness of the Nowak case?

Here's the important bits

Drejka, a 47-year-old man, was not initially charged for the killing by the Pinellas County Sheriff's Office, with Sheriff Bob Gualtieri citing Florida's stand-your-ground law as the reason. The investigation was then handed over to the Sixth Judicial Circuit Court of Florida State Attorney Bernie McCabe, who charged Drejka with one count of manslaughter on August 13, 2018. Drejka pleaded not guilty to the charge. His trial began on August 19, 2019. Drejka was convicted of manslaughter on August 23, 2019, and was sentenced to imprisonment for twenty years on October 10, 2019.

There you go. A jury in Florida reviewing the evidence and applicable laws found a white man guilty of manslaughter of a black man after he was initially not arrested by police.

This is what you asked for, this is what you were provided. Complain all you want that you don't like the specific laws or whatever, but those are the laws Florida had.

Oh yeah and also Republican state attorney too so the investigation was handled and charged by a Republican and found guilty in a Republican state under Republican law cause I can predict your next nitpick might be "well what if it's politically biased!!" cause you do not want to accept that I have shown you several different answers to your increasingly goalpost shifting ask.

This is what you asked for

It is not. I asked for an instance in which a white man attacked a brown man (though the sexes are irrelevant, and I would have accepted any person of colour), police arrived on the scene, immediately assumed that the visibly injured brown victim was the aggressor (perhaps because the white aggressor was acting "calmly" or cooperatively, as you claimed) and put him in handcuffs, while declining to put the white aggressor in handcuffs.

That's what I've been asking for all along. Read back through the comments I posted, you will not find a single instance in which I demanded an example of a white man killing a person of colour and the police declining to prosecute. That is a completely different situation to the one I asked for an example of.

I honestly cannot believe you have the nerve to accuse me of moving the goalposts. Is the idea just that if you tell an extremely brazen lie, you'll make me doubt myself enough that I'll accept that I was mistaken? Is your goal simply to gaslight me into submission?

Numerous people independently had their suspicions over the last year, I had my doubts, but at this point the pattern is just impossible to deny: give it a rest, Darwin. I don't know what the rules on using alt accounts are, but this is just tiresome, pathetic behaviour, and I wish you'd find a more productive use of your time than reflexively asserting "nothing to see here, folks!" whenever a conservative person voices an entirely legitimate grievance. Will you now announce that you're too busy with your job and family to provide the source I requested, abandon this alt, and come back in six months with an even stupider name? Surely you have better things to be doing with your life.

Look dude, I'm not gonna continue a conversation where you constantly move the goalposts.

If you can't accept a story where a guy was initially not arrested and charged and then later was convicted of manslaughter by a jury of his peers, then what will you accept?

This was a guilty white man who killed a black guy who was not treated as guilty on the scene but later found guilty so it's not even some theoretical argument.

immediately assumed that the visibly injured brown victim was the aggressor (perhaps because the white aggressor was acting "calmly" or cooperatively, as you claimed) and put him in handcuffs,

The victim was dead then! Your only nitpick here is that the victim was too dead to be put in handcuffs so it didn't count?

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