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What does "real" even mean when you're asking someone's ex-gf questions about them?
The baseline expectation should be that if you ask a woman about her ex-bf, she'll describe him as some mix of narcissist/manchild/abusive/idiot/loser. Anything positive is actively surprising.
Among other artifacts she provided a diary entry from 2016 where she called him “the most toxic literally abusive man on earth who ruined my life”.
Ok and?
Women criticize ex boyfriends constantly and absurdly. I was confused by this, when I was in high school. Melodramatic nonsense.
Your earlier comment was about how women describe their ex-boyfriends when asked. I provided evidence that these allegations are not just from her public-facing self but even from her internal monologue.
I guess I wasn't clear in my meaning, because I didn't think the point needed to be explicated at length.
People are not objective when talking about former, or current, lovers. There is no "real" and no "truth" to be found in their accounts of their former lovers. I don't know if she's lying in the sense of knowingly telling a falsehood, or telling the truth as she experienced/remembers it, and I have no way of knowing. The testimony of ex-gfs is useless, because they are in most cases incapable of objective truth, it's too close to their self.
This is not an area of human experience that can be explained through litigating facts and evidence.
This is Brett Kavanaugh all over again. Some things just shouldn't be talked about, because it's pointless to talk about them.
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