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The Motte infidelity survey

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UPDATE: My analysis available here.

In yesterday's small-scale questions thread, @cjet79 asks why the song "Mr. Brightside" by The Killers has had such staying power, famously staying in the UK singles charts decades after its initial release. Some explanations (including my own) point to its compositional elements; others focus on its lyrics and subject matter. @100ProofTollBooth argues that it's a very universal and relatable song, as "The experience of infidelity (to some degree) is common to many (most? idk) people."

I'm curious if this is really the case, so I decided to go Aella mode and created a simple survey to find out about people's experiences with infidelity. It consists of a few demographic questions (age, sex, sexual orientation, relationship style), then asks you if you've ever had an unfaithful partner, then asks you if you've ever been unfaithful to a partner.

Completely anonymous, and I've set it up so the form doesn't collect email addresses if you're logged in.

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No email address required.

The only context in which I encountered it was an old Soothouse video in which they did one of the "Google translate 1,000 times in various languages" games with the lyrics, producing:

Get out of my fucking cage
And I did all right
He must go
I want all the reasons
She began to kiss.
How it ended?
This kiss, kisses
I'll sleep
She called a taxi
Despite the fact that there is smoke
And she performs oral sex
Now they sleep
My stomach is very painful
All in my head
But she touched her breast
NOW HE GATHERED HIS HARVEST.
Let me go
I can not kill me.
Avoid
Hey, turn to the sea
Swinging lullaby
STRENGTHEN YOUR POWER
But that's the price I paid.
The fate is calling me
Open the sight,
Because I'm Mr. Brightside.

But I'd never actually heard the music, and still haven't.

Surprisingly, most of the context came through, and the "She's taking a drag" line becoming "And she performs oral sex," is almost a metaphor implicit in the song. I don't know how Google Translate somehow amplified the sexual content.