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Culture War Roundup for the week of June 22, 2026

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Okay, are we talking about toilets or locker rooms?

Regarding locker rooms, how does a trans woman's penis negatively affect the cis women in the locker room? Just look away.

And does it not equally violate social norms to have a trans woman's breasts, which look like normal female breasts, displayed in a men's locker room?

With this logic men should be allowed in the women's locker room. Those women are free to look away from my penis also. In what way is its mere presence wounding them? The only point of sex restricted spaces is to avoid this one situation. The social norm of private nude spaces for only one sex.

My understanding is that the reason for segregating locker rooms by sex is to prevent men from looking at women because that would make the women uncomfortable, not to protect men's eyes, and, to a much lesser extent, to prevent women from looking at men because that would make the men uncomfortable, not to protect women's eyes. Yes, this does ignore LGB people, but sex-segregated locker rooms originate in an era when LGB people were ignored.

It's also to prevent flashers from doing their thing. Indecent exposure is a crime. There are lots of men who get off on exposing their genitalia to women who don't want to see it, and yes, a non-negligible proportion of those are trans-identified males.

Indecent exposure is a crime.

Indeed, so we already have the means to prevent it. If a particular trans person is a pervert, prosecute them. Don't throw all trans people, most of whom are not perverts, under the bus. If a trans women isn't deliberately drawing attention from other women in the locker room, she is doing nothing wrong.

Ever hear the expression "an ounce of prevention is better than a pound of cure"? I would much rather perverts not expose themselves to innocent victims in the first place over them doing so and arresting them after the fact.

Your argument is an argument for abolishing sex-segregation:

If a particular man is a pervert, prosecute them. Don't throw all men, most of whom are not perverts, under the bus. If a man isn't deliberately drawing attention from other women in the locker room, he is doing nothing wrong.

If your young daughter was getting changed in a locker room and you saw a middle-aged man in a trenchcoat follow her in, would you be concerned? Or would you wait until after he'd interfered with her before trying to have him arrested?

It being a crime is meant to be a deterrent, i.e., it serves to prevent it from happening and not just to punish people when it does.

Locker rooms are still necessary to prevent men from looking at women, as discussed in my previous comment. Using criminal prosecution or the possibility thereof to prevent this is unrealistic because it is something most men are inclined to do if given the opportunity, unlike indecent exposure, which only a small number of perverts do and which is widely condemned.

So are you in favour of abolishing sex-segregation entirely?

I made a mistake in my previous comment. It was meant to read:

Segregated locker rooms are still necessary to prevent men from looking at women, as discussed in my previous comment. Using criminal prosecution or the possibility thereof to prevent this is unrealistic because it is something most men are inclined to do if given the opportunity, unlike indecent exposure, which only a small number of perverts do and which is widely condemned.