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Culture War Roundup for the week of June 22, 2026

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I would strongly encourage you to read this post about how Australia's laws unintentionally drove one of our posters to attempting suicide. This stuff has real consequences.

I'm sorry this happened to him but the guy sounds like a real piece of work and if I found out my buddy wrote and collected books about kids raping each other I'd never talk to him again and I surely would make sure he's never left alone with any kids. This stuff is totally fucked up and I'm pretty sure the vast, vast majority would agree with me on this whereas most people don't care about GTA.

Whether or not this requires criminal penalties is debatable, but not everything that is unacceptable should be illegal.

Suit yourself. I hope the leopards never bite your face.

In this case, the comment sounds like the poster went into the leopards' enclosure at the zoo and shoved his face right up against the leopard's head:

I'm not, strictly speaking, a paedophile - they don't help me get it up, so to speak - but I sure as hell don't refrain from pirating such illegal VNs if the plot sounds interesting (and, well, there were one or two early on where I was still, shall we say, "exploring").

...In 2021 I wound up with a new housemate in uni accommodations. He and I clicked and got along like a house on fire until I made the mistake of sharing this, at which point he started thinking I was a dangerous sexual predator who needed to get his life sorted out.

(B)ecause any serious investigation into my background would turn up one of my bigger regrets i.e. that I tried to forcibly kiss a few people (of roughly the same age as I was) back in 2008-11.

'Not strictly speaking a paedophile, unless of course the source material is interesting and well I was experimenting back then, ha ha!' and 'yeah so I maybe tried to force my attentions on unwilling people but it was just a kiss, ha ha" isn't the glowing testimonial to utter harmlessness you present it as. We don't get the other people's side of the story - was it just kissing? how forceful? and "I told my roommate because I thought they might have similar inclinations" isn't "wait, I thought he'd love to help me with my model train collection!", it's "wait, I thought he also would like fictional depictions of puppies being skinned alive!" in which case he has no right to be shocked at the result.