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Culture War Roundup for the week of July 13, 2026

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I am not going to trawl through past comment threads for the exact quotes because that's too damn disheartening, but yeah - previous discussions of "why isn't anyone having babies?" has devolved into "it's because women! the uppity bitches!" and solutions suggested include:

  • no access to higher education (because more education and lower fertility linked, many such studies)
  • no careers (okay maybe they can be nurses or kindergarten teachers or some soft easy no-job like secretary, but that's mostly so men can have a selection of females to choose a potential wife from, workplace romances should be okay, there is no such thing as sexual harassment (if your boss wants a blowjob in exchange for a pay rise then get on your knees, it's not like you have any talents or skills that deserve better pay unlike a man*) and once you're married no more job/career for you Mrs. Woman)
  • no choice in marriage (women being picky and hypergamous means the average Nice Guy can't even get a swipe on a dating app, so go back to the days of families arranging marriages, that way women would be mated with their equals in the Sexual Marketplace Value, instead of holding out for Chad)
  • no contraception/abortion (except of course for eugenic reasons)
  • early childbearing (higher fertility, more children over the span of fertile years)
  • divorce changed back (too liberal and skewed in favour of women, who can divorce-rape poor innocent men and leave them standing begging on the side of the road in rags while the leech ex-wife jets around having luxury lifestyle, and no "I was a full-time home maker for fifteen to twenty years" is not work or contributing to the marriage or supporting the husband in any way so they deserve nothing after divorce)
  • giving women the vote was a mistake (they vote for policies that favour them and so society is now weakened, emasculated, and all the rest of the ills)
  • feminism is to blame (it taught women to hate men, instead of knowing their place being ready to be wives and mothers as soon as they hit twenty at the oldest)
  • the Sexual Revolution was all women's fault, women are promiscuous, the cock carousel, you know the drill
  • women should Know Their Place, their only advantages are when they're young and hot and so men want to fuck them (it's evolution in action!) and they should remember that one day they will Hit The Wall, all their ova will dry up, they will be old raddled ugly hags, no man will want them, and they won't even have a husband and children to support them now they're dried-up useless crones of thirty-five

And then there are the guys who really don't like women and want to put them in their proper place.

*If you think I'm joking, no indeed past discussions have also gone "women should use their natural advantages to get ahead in the workplace so if Boss offers promotion in exchange for sleeping with him, go for it". No guy has said he'd let his boss fuck him for a promotion, but then again they are all Straight Manly Men of Talent who got ahead on pure merit, unlike women who only have their fleeting sexual attractiveness to offer, right?

Well I think we are all on a spectrum on all of these different assertions. Some of these are a little contradictory, depending on whether this is coming from a more traditional or non-traditional perspective.
I imagine that even the hardest of communists see an issue with running out of comrades if nobody in the world has any kids, even these evil conservatives whose kids we will all convert.

I hope we can both agree on some basic facts such as :

  • at least some women should have children
  • early childbearing (higher fertility, more children over the span of fertile years) is a true statement, whether we want to make it normative or not, if a society wants to increase fertility, that is probably something to consider
  • most people can't be both girlbosses and the primary caregiver of a child age 0-3

There are some other assertions that are more debatable, like

giving women the vote was a mistake (they vote for policies that favour them and so society is now weakened, emasculated, and all the rest of the ills)

feminism is to blame (it taught women to hate men, instead of knowing their place being ready to be wives and mothers as soon as they hit twenty at the oldest)

That one is more of a correlation/causation problem, maybe the inevitable fertility cliff was to happen no matter what with modernity, but [single] women do vote for policies that seem to decrease fertility.

there is no such thing as sexual harassment (if your boss wants a blowjob in exchange for a pay rise then get on your knees, it's not like you have any talents or skills that deserve better pay unlike a man*)

I disagree with that one, but there is obviously a huge problem in how feminists vow to handle these nuanced matters. #BelieveAllWomen #NotCarolynBryantTho

No guy has said he'd let his boss fuck him for a promotion

Rare, but it happens. Lee Boo Jin / Im Woo Jae

Why are you so upset about this anyway?

Would it be okay if women were 100% legally allowed to pursue a career, go to college, etc -what we have now or better- but society was relentlessly shaming women who refuse to get married and have 2+ kids?

Or would you also be upset about that?

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