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It's a tricky thing paying people to do stuff. I remember reading studies decades ago about how it lowered motivation for many tasks to add a paid component.
You could give a fixed allowance predicated on some amount of chore completion so she acquires money but it isn't 1:1 related to the task
My concern is less chores, and more of any unintended blowback by accidentally making her dislike crafts because her parents monetized it and it killed the vibe (I can't remember the mechanism of action in the studies lol)
It's called overjustification.
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