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Privilege Theory
A Privilege is an unearned advantage according to this theory, and if you are born into a position of privilege, you dont know what its like to live without it. I think this idea has many flaws, but I'll let the author go more indepth:
I can't be the only one who dislikes the accusatory structure of Privilege to begin with? It kind of leads to the concrete argument inherently. Privilege is applied to the group that, by definition, lacks the disadvantage. Wouldn't a more productive conversation be around how to fix the disadvantages of others? If I say someone has Male Privilege, what is that meant to do? I cant say I've ever seen this used very productively. It just feels more like a bludgeoning fist than a helping hand.
Perhaps another argument could be that those with this advantage have an obligation to help others without it, but Its not like a lack of disadvantage is the same as being in a position to do anything, and its not automatically the case that the disadvantage have no power either. Maybe those with wealth privilege could give money to the poor, but that might not affect much if the reasons someone is poor is structural/government policy reasons, or due to their own personal failings. And some one who is poor could very well change their circumstances to become middle class if they work hard and stay in school. Yes this obviously has its limits, but it'll still put you in a better spot than doing nothing. Same with thing with male privilege: I can't stop other men from raping women and using money & power to get away with it unless I possessed a similar level of wealth and power. The fact that I am less likely to experience rape myself doesn't change this idea.
Its a frustrating conversation to have, because it pivots and assigns blame and responsibility to the "Privileged" group, instead putting focus on how to fix the issues of the less fortunate. It gives me the gist that many of these folk are just looking to shit on people and shut them up, rather than actually solve any real problems.
The accusatory attitude towards privledge seems to me like the crabs in a bucket mentality, jealousy, or other similar ressentiment towards towards the more powerful. I think this is what matters, as it gives you us a model for understanding the position. If we merely listen to the position explaining itself, we'll find that it breaks down completely under scrutiny. I could rip the entire concept apart with clever arguments (let me know if anyone wants to read that), but at this point it feels like we're just pointing out the obvious and agreeing with one another as a way of venting.
A better question is, will anyone here defend the idea of privilege being used like this? As you point out, it's used as a way to bring down the successful rather than as a way to help those who are unsuccessful. If you look more closely, this is a common psychological theme of losers (underprivileged, needy, use any synonym). They hate the rich but do not love the poor. They want to see evil people punished, but they don't check what happened to the victims. Psychologically speaking, hatred of X is distinct from the love of (opposite of X).
Of course the disadvantaged aren't without power. They're actually the most powerful when you consider the strength in numbers. By definition, being disadvantaged has become an advantageous position, meaning that the powerless are powerful. Think about it - if white men are being harassed, how are they privledged? There's no force more difficult to oppose than public opinion.
The so-called fight for the good (especially of a class or category of people) is just a fight for power. Femininsm is a fight for power. Communism is a fight for power. Maybe this comment too is just an attempt to elevate myself. I'd argue that it's not, though, since my will to power is lacking. Anyway, psychology is not rocket science, our social norms just prevents a clear understanding of human nature from becoming common knowledge.
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