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That's incorrect. Many documents put male/female as sex marker, and there's nothing misogynistic about them. Cases where it might come off this way are fairly limited.
What's more, literally the only reason why people started using "female" was to disambiguate after the trans movement changed the definition of "woman". This was done on the assumption that the trans movement is acting in good faith, and it's all just misunderstanding that can be cleared up by using terms that both sides will understand. Your claim clearly shows that none of this is not happening in good faith, as even official pro-trans materials use the words "male" and "female", so your goal can only be to silence opposition.
Finally, it's extremely hypocritical to demand that your opponents entertain your outlandish definitions of words, while reserving the right to unilaterally declare the other side's words "misogynistic".
"Female" being associated with misogyny has nothing to do trans and is more related to normie feminism. Feminists complained that people were using "girls" to refer to groups consisting of at least some adult women, so some people started using "females" to refer to those groups as a hypercorrection. This didn't satisfy the complainers; for an example, see the /r/MenAndFemales subreddit, dedicated to pointing out instances of people using "men" for men and "females" for women and gesturing at the apparent misogyny.
This has led to a hyperstitious cascade where the people still using the word "female" are less feminist than average.
The polite way would be to refer to ‘ladies’ or ‘girls’. Some people don’t like the latter but it’s not controversial with the normies.
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They're kinda the same picture. Simone de Beauvoir came up with the whole "woman is a social construct" idea, and a whole lot of feminism was built on top of that. Later it was obviously also used by trans activists as well.
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