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Negative interactions with cops come from having so many laws that if you meet a cop, either he's busting you or you'd better be on guard not to call attention to some law you may be violating. And because they get aggressive on you if you don't "respect their authority" as South Park puts it, and because in effect they have the power of corporal and capital punishment. That you think it is reasonable that you act with extreme deference to someone who is ruining your day or risk, e.g., being shot dead in your own driveway with your wife watching because you didn't respect his authority sufficiently is just Stockholm Syndrome. The police are not the people and the people are not the police; the police have been placed over the people to keep them in line, and the people know it.
Anecdata here, but since you made an absolute statement my anecdotes are a disproof. Here are the past 3 interactions I had with cops:
Waving to my highway patrolman neighbor when I passed him coming home last week while he was driving out to go on duty, he waved back and smiled.
Called the cops on some 10 year olds who were driving a golf cart through the neighborhood (I wouldn't have cared if they were ~14 or older, 10 is way to young to be driving on public roads like that). The officer who investigated called me back after he failed to find them (I assume they had already arrived at their destination and were no longer out and about by the time the cop was able to investigate). He was very polite on the phone and apologized for not being able to find them.
Got a speeding ticket in a notorious speed trap town between where I live and my in-laws live. I was actually speeding and was retarded not to be more careful.
So, uh, 2 out of 3 of my past interactions fail your absolute standard of "either he's busting you or you'd better be on guard not to call attention to some law you may be violating".
Maybe don't make such absolute, broad, sweeping generalizations about roughly 750,000 people (the total number of cops in the USA).
As the joke goes...
The average encounter a citizen has with a cop is in the negative context. Copwaver Georg, who is in the cohort of the people who call the cops, including in situations that don't personally concern them, and makes sure to wave to every passing patrolman, thus racking up 1000 positive interactions with cops per month, is an outlier who should not be counted.
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