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Friday Fun Thread for August 7, 2026

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Who's the female equivalent of Ryan Gosling? Feel free to interpret the question however you wish, but please post your rationale.

Tends to play roles that men project themselves as rather than women swoon over; demonstrates a good understanding of the way men feel and express emotional vulnerability. Good at playing autistic or autism-coded characters. Good looking, cleans up very very well but not ethereally so, like a top 10%-5%, not a top 2% looker. I've looked at lists of currently popular actresses and maybe Maika Monroe would fit the bill. I saw her recently in Longlegs and she did a great autistic-coded pseudo-Jodie Foster in Silence of the Lambs detective. A couple decades ago, Jodie Foster would have been my choice.

This description looks absurd to me, because a solid majority of what I hear about Ryan Gosling is women swooning over him as an easily-top-1% looker. Maika Monroe and Jodie Foster are both quite attractive but I wouldn't expect Ryan Gosling to be their looksmatch (to use a term I find mildly offputting).

This description looks absurd to me, because a solid majority of what I hear about Ryan Gosling is women swooning over him as an easily-top-1% looker.

He's good looking but I really do think it's his demeanor and not him being in the 1%. He carries himself like he's always deeply content and comfortable in any situation. It's the combination of looks, demeanor, and fame that put him in the 1%. Not looks alone.

Supposedly the director didn't want him in The Notebook as he didn't think he was handsome enough to be a romantic lead.

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