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A very lengthy reply which doesn't really contain much substance. The simple response is that yes we have to make decisions about what is bad and what is not, and we should not be paralyzed about parades of alleged horribles laid out by sexual deviants in defense of their deviancy. The founders were not confused by this, people were not in 1920.
This is not Gimli threatening to chop of Eomer's head for not calling Galadriel the most beautiful, but relenting because Eomer prefers Arwen, and has this chosen the evening over the morning. No, you have chosen to flaunt some orcish beast and asked me to contemplate whether that monstrosity is perhaps as beautiful as Galadriel. We need not heed such spurious arguments.
My retort writes itself.
It is anticipated given your earlier post. The idea that all ideas are equal, one thing cannot be objectively more beautiful than another is just cultural relativism, which ends with unworkable nonsense. If you are pretending seeing a hairy man's ass in a dress with a red thong is as good as seeing Ursula Andress ascend from the water of the Bahamas, your judgment is clearly so impaired that you can't be trusted to make calls on more important matters, such as criminal law. You are not only very likely to adopt the mindset of bicycle meme guy, you are prone to universalize this dysfunctional form of thought and decriminalize bike theft in its entirety. In fact, you are probably going to be seriously contemplating eliminating private property in its entirety.
You misunderstand. Ursula Andress's socioeconomic interest is the reason why I must pretend seeing a hairy man's ass in a dress is good, and why I must pretend desiring a younger, hotter version of her is bad.
In your original statement, you conflated the two by saying
And the answer I had for you is that you should stop conflating the two, for your concept of "child obscenity" is both trivially gamed and unequally enforced (by women who fear their own ugliness/inevitable devaluation that they ban anything more beautiful than them [with that excuse] and equate ugliness to beauty) with the ultimate intention to compromise your proper exercise of political power.
So the fact you even have it as a category has resulted in your kids being forced to see the drag shows in the first place, whether or not you're
simpingrespecting your (present or future) wife's power by equating them as equally bad.I brought receipts to back up my claims, but here's one more thought for you: the places that produce the highest amount of child obscene content has the lowest problem with drag shows (and, though they may have many cross-dressers- even an above-average amount at times, especially in their media- they aren't shoving themselves in your face or behaving anything like a Western woman-approved-drag-queen does).
So I assert that the men and women there, for a variety of reasons, appear to respect each other's interests more. I hope that intentionally hampering your ability to understand why that is- because you're afraid or offended, because it's against your religion, or because you're just plain lazy- has few consequences for your future children, for your ideas of how you must protect them are incoherent.
"The bunch of exceptions that were invented contrary to 1A worked 100 years ago" was literally what paved the way for your modern problems in the first place. A mere retvrning to those exceptions won't solve anything.
California seems to be doing bad at child obscene material production (as in they do a lot) and transing kids (again do a lot) and showing kids drag (they do it a lot).
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