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What a wild dereliction of parental responsibility. How do you go nearly a decade without realizing your kid is learning nothing except how to avoid getting stabbed in the lunch room?
I guess if it's any consolation, NHJ has made a lot of money in the meantime by giving moral cover for rich coastal elites to sabotage the education of potential competitors, so whatever permanent damage she did to her daughter, there's a nice financial cushion for her and a pretty unobstructed path to admission to an elite university, so she'll be fine.
One thing that stuck out to me was comparing deliberately sending her daughter to shitty schools to civil rights-era parents fighting segregation (notably about sending kids to better schools) is a world in itself.
You have the claim to be heirs to the civil rights act. You have the inability to actually improve things so in the name of equity by golly no one gets a good education. Not on her watch. You have the mental jujutsu to advocate for literally the opposite of the tradition you claim to be heirs of.
I have a small child and have been worried about public schools, private schools, etc. and I don’t know if this article makes me feel better or worse.
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Lots of credentialed women will just stubbornly believe institutions over their own lying eyes.
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Besides being a stubborn narcissist and ideologue that knew she'd get this exact response if she quit these schools before her daughter was done schooling?
The schools seem to avoid any way of being held accountable. By her account they didn't do any standardized (racist, she would have called them) assessments and it was pulling teeth to get them to do it, gave no homework (which would help parents get a benchmark) and at a certain point they were just passing her on effort in algebra.
Given most of the likely parents in that school, this would have served to satisfy people and draw no attention until it was too late.
She herself was almost certainly negligent despite her claims to have been open to tutoring her kids, but all of these factors seem to have made it worse.
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