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Culture War Roundup for the week of September 21, 2026

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But it is something that is more likely to happen in a city than a suburb, which is where the comparison is. In a suburb I don't have to calculate the lenght of time it takes to go down an elevator or up a stairwell.

Again, I don't understand your point. As far as I know, the claim you were making is that a resident of an urban area needs a car to the same extent a suburbanite needs a car. The fact that any trip made by an urbanite typically includes a couple extra minutes to exit the building is true, of course. However I don't see how it's relevant to what you are trying to claim.

I would prefer to walk/bike. Cars are bulky, they separate you from the outside world, you have to find a parking space and worry that one mistake will create a huge expense and inconvenience to you and another person. I would much prefer to live in a neighborhood where I could bike 20 minutes to a grocery instead of drive 20 minutes to a grocery. This is my point

I can't really say much about your personal preferences, except to observe that everyone else has their preferences as well. And I am pretty sure that (1) most people find it impractical to live in the suburbs without a car; and (2) the same is not true for urban areas such as Manhattan.

To put things more succinctly, so what?

As far as I know, the claim you were making is that a resident of an urban area needs a car to the same extent a suburbanite needs a car.

No, that's not the claim. The claim is that life has inconveniences either way, and you're unfairly weighing the inconveniences of walking medium distances in comparison to the inconveniences of walking in a city.

To put things more succinctly, so what?

Exactly what I have been repeating about every other comment. The design of Redmond Ridge was really nice and I wish more developers copied what made it incentivize walking.

No, that's not the claim. The claim is that life has inconveniences either way, and you're unfairly weighing the inconveniences of walking medium distances in comparison to the inconveniences of walking in a city.

That's completely incorrect, but it's kind of a moot issue. See below.

Exactly what I have been repeating about every other comment. The design of Redmond Ridge was really nice and I wish more developers copied what made it incentivize walking.

That may be so, but it doesn't contradict anything I have said.

In any event, I am bowing out of this exchange. It appears that you are continually arguing against positions I haven't taken and arguments I haven't made, while at the same time your own position is too vague and shifting to permit a meaningful response.