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Culture War Roundup for the week of September 21, 2026

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The generous take is that Holmes tried to apply the silicon valley "fake it till you make it" strategy and got in way over her head. Then she just stubbornly kept pushing forward hoping everything would work out.

This was John Carreyrou's take in his book, and he wasn't very sympathetic.

It fits really well with the anecdotes littered in the book about her obsession with Jobs.

Christian and his friends were always ready and willing to do Elizabeth and Sunny’s bidding. Their eagerness to please was on display when news broke that Steve Jobs had died on the evening of October 5, 2011. Elizabeth and Sunny wanted to pay Jobs a tribute by flying an Apple flag at half-mast on the grounds of the Hillview Avenue building. The next morning, Jeff Blickman, a tall redhead who’d played varsity baseball at Duke, volunteered for the mission. He couldn’t locate any suitable Apple flag for sale, so Blickman had one custom made out of vinyl. It featured the famous Apple logo in white against a black background. The store he went to took a while to make it. Blickman didn’t return with it until late in the day. In the meantime, work at the company came to a standstill as Elizabeth and Sunny moped around the office, consumed by the hunt for the Apple flag.

Greg had been aware of Elizabeth’s fascination with Jobs. She referred to him as “Steve” as if they were close friends. At one point, she’d told him that a documentary espousing a 9/11 conspiracy theory wouldn’t have been available on iTunes if “Steve” hadn’t believed there was something to it. Greg thought that was silly. He was pretty sure Jobs hadn’t personally screened all the movies for rent or sale on iTunes. Elizabeth seemed to have this exaggerated image of him as an all-seeing and all-knowing being.

It all fits the image of a very immature , mentally ill person who thought she could just push through.

The real question is what the fuck Sunny Balwani was thinking.

The eye contact during a blow job must’ve been next level